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The Urgency of Encouragement
By Annie Perdue Olson | | Communication, Confidence, Leadership, Momentum, Relationships
We think of encouragement as a “nice to have” thing to lift us up on the bad days and supercharge our good days. What if it is not a “nice to have” but a truly necessary thing that we need? What if we are challenged in scripture to give encouragement daily? “But encourage one another…
Read More Let Empathy Influence How You Lead
By Annie Perdue Olson | | Coaching, Communication, Leadership, Relationships
In recent blogs, we have talked about why practicing empathy in the moment is important and what empathy is not. So, how does developing your empathy add value to how you lead? Imagine a situation where your team member is not measuring up. They missed a deadline. They blew up at a co-worker or they…
Read More Four Things Empathy is Not
By Annie Perdue Olson | | Camaraderie, Clarity, Leadership, Relationships
Empathy is a powerful emotion that can generate deeper understanding, and it is also an essential skill in every single leadership conversation. The productive dialogue that flows from an empathetic viewpoint offers alternative perspectives, increases productivity and generates buy-in across the board. However, a misperception about empathy can cause leaders to hold back from utilizing…
Read More Practicing Empathy in the Heat of the Moment
By Annie Perdue Olson | | Conflict, Growth, Leadership, Relationships, Teams
Mothers and daughters often don’t see eye to eye. Last week, I had one of those not so fun mother-daughter interactions with my nine year old. She was getting emotional and so was I. However, her emotions were falling out all over the place and mine were tightly held inside. I completely disregarded her emotions…
Read More Expand Your Mentorship Circle
By Annie Perdue Olson | | Camaraderie, Coaching, Performance, Relationships, Retention
Achieving our goals has gotten trickier in the last year. As we head into a new year, I would like to propose that a key factor in reaching our 2021 goals may be expanding the way we think about mentoring. “Mentor” is a verb as well as a noun. It’s entirely possible for someone to mentor…
Read More So, You’re Looking For A Mentor
By Annie Perdue Olson | | Camaraderie, Coaching, Growth, Leadership, Relationships
Great leaders have personal growth plans. No matter how seasoned of a leader you are, we all have potential for growth. Someone out there is further along. Someone out there has experience to add to your thinking. Someone out there has questions you haven’t even thought to ask. Mentors are all around us. Who makes…
Read More Can Mentorship be Reciprocal?
By Annie Perdue Olson | | Camaraderie, Coaching, Confidence, Growth, Leadership, Relationships
We have heard that it is better to give than to receive. The beauty of reciprocity is that when it comes to mentoring both giving and receiving can co-exist. Mentoring, however, is not on the “radar screen” for everybody. It may be easier to put mentoring to the side because of the energy and effort…
Read More Taming the Triggers
By Annie Perdue Olson | | Confidence, Relationships
Crazy, busy life reactions are amplified when we have some “history” that can pop up at the most unexpected moments. One leader I talked to summarized the conditions as ripe for triggering the past with words like: Exhaustion. Scattered. Juggling. Relationships are also fertile ground for triggering unexpected responses within us. Put on the stress…
Read More Side-by-Side Conversations are More Productive
By Annie Perdue Olson | | Camaraderie, Communication, Relationships
When the heat turns up in our conversations the tendency is to dig in our heels and expect others to adapt to our needs. It can be difficult to modify our natural preferences and engage in dialogue that brings out the best in ourselves and others, especially when we feel “time is of the essence”.…
Read More Myth of Self-Care for Busy Leaders
By Annie Perdue Olson | | Change, Clarity, Relationships
In the middle of busy lives and busy leadership coupled with the reality of pandemic fatigue it would be pretty natural to preach a sermon for self-care challenging you to step back from “the busy” and intentionally choose activities that nurture spiritual, physical, relational and emotional health. Yet, for many busy leaders it’s a goal…
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